The Truth About Job Joy: 5 Myths and How I Discovered My Unique Career Journey

It's interesting to note that I initially had zero interest in becoming a therapist or a school counselor, but ended up pursuing both roles, and about 5 years in, transitioned to other positions that were fulfilling for me. However, I didn't go rogue and waste my Master's Degree. Instead, I utilized the skills and strengths I acquired during my time as a counselor in these new roles. If I had a $1 for every person who asked me how I uniquely crafted my career path and broke the mold of a traditional counselor, I'd be rich.

Most of you didn't know until recently how I came back full circle to deciding I was ready to re-open that (virtual) door to my private practice. While it may sound like I couldn't decide whether I was coming or going, each decision I made was because of what I have coined "serendipitous signals". Fortunate opportunities are not coincidence, but you will miss them if you are unsure how to look for them. These signs gave me leeway to create my own path and build an intuitive sense of direction. Not every job was an epic failure, and not every job was a perfect fit. Each and every role had key elements that guided me towards understanding and clearly articulating what I wanted, what I didn't, what were non-negotiables, and what would push me into a "growth spurt".

The roadmap I created gives me the confidence to know the answers lie within, and whatever the circumstances, my creativity, resourcefulness, and self-trust will be exactly what propel me forward.

This process has significantly boosted my confidence by reaffirming that by trusting my intuition and remaining authentic, I not only gain a deeper understanding of myself but also move closer to fulfilling my purpose.

What I've realized is this skill-set needs to be taught!

Many of us tend to remain in roles or relationships that no longer benefit us for too long. Some of us attempt to conceal our overwhelming anxiety and lack of confidence in the fear of starting over. You feel burnt out running on autopilot. You may be ready for a change but have no idea where to start. Before you think you're stuck and that change comes with a hefty price tag, let's debunk 5 myths killing your job joy!

1. Myth: Job Joy Comes From a Single, Perfect Role

Exciting Reality: Forget about the idea of one perfect job! True job satisfaction actually comes from embracing diverse experiences and roles that open doors to growth and endless possibilities!

2. Myth: You Must Follow a Traditional Path to Be Successful

Wow, Reality! Let's debunk the myth that a linear career path is the sole key to success! Embrace the excitement of unconventional journeys that blend a variety of skills, interests, and experiences. It's all about finding joy in the unexpected!

3. Myth: Passion is All You Need to Be Happy at Work

Exciting News: Passion is indeed crucial, but guess what? It's not the only ingredient for achieving job happiness! Factors such as your work environment, relationships, and work-life balance are equally significant in determining your overall job satisfaction.

4. Myth: Job Joy is Static

Joyful Wow, Reality: While some may think that job joy is set in stone once achieved, the truth is far more dynamic. Job satisfaction is a rollercoaster ride influenced by factors like personal growth, life events, and external situations.

5. Myth: Job Joy Means Never Feeling Stressed

Get ready for the truth: Don't be fooled by the myth that loving your job means never feeling stressed or dissatisfied. Even the most rewarding roles come with challenges, but it's all about how you tackle those challenges that paves the way for lasting job satisfaction!

Discovering your true self on a profound level is the key! Unveiling what drives you and makes you unique is the ultimate game-changer. The more you understand yourself, the more those magical "serendipitous signals" will shine brightly! I'm thrilled to guide you on this exciting journey of uncovering and embracing your own special signs!